Your unique Relationship with Money, Spending and Investing wants to be Nurtured just as much as your Wealth Consciousness does.

Every single person has a different Nervous System relationship with Money, with spending, with investing.

There's the woman (typically this one's me) who would much rather pay for a whole thing in one chunk, rather than being saddled with a monthly payment — her Energy wants to Move when it's ready, and then be free to enjoy the Receiving.

There's the woman who would much rather have the slow, rolling, leisurely pa/ment plan — her Energy wants a plan that feels like a gentle river flowing instead of ever feeling like the 'big wave.'

There's the woman who would rather throw down a chunk up-front, to then have the lightest, breeziest plan — one that feels soooooooo easy on her System — she loves the best of both.

There's the woman who loves doing, say, 4 moderate-sized chunks, with a fair amount of spaciousness in between — her Energy, perhaps, moves in cycles, in seasons, in ebbs and flows.

I do all of these for women stepping in here…

And probably other things, too, depending on what women who are entering my world say they feel best and most regulated with.

And it can be different for different things, or at different times, or just simply because something else feels more Aligned for us at one time than it does another...

Meaning, I've personally chosen a payment plan for something I’ve bought that would mean I was spending MORE — even though I could easily have purchased the experience in full — because the number felt more Resonant to me... for whatever reason, and I don't need to know why.

We want to meet your Energy and your Nervous System — and your Desire for your Expansion — how IT wants to be met.

And that's actually one of the ways we OPEN your System into more Receivership... right out of the gate.

Yeah?

It ALL gets to feel like a sigh of relief.
EVEN WHILE you let yourself be stretched.

(You Know this is how our bodies work, too, right? ;))

Okay, so then let's talk about one of the biggest lies that the coaching industry has told us — and how that applies to investing in ourselves, our businesses, our Expansion:

"If it's not a hell yes — then it's a no."

NO.

That's not how it works.

That's Wounded Maiden and the Machine being taught and drilled into our minds on the regular — SO THAT they can sell you more.

Let's break that down...

The Machine says it's all 0s and 1s. Either / Or. This way or that way. 

It says you're either in or you're out. You're correct or you're incorrect. It's the RIGHT move or it's the WRONG one.

The Wounded Maiden says it's allllll going to be Fun and Pleasure and easy and feel-good — if we're "doing it right."

She says it's all supposed to be peaches and rainbows, sunshine and carefree.

{ Note: I talk about Ease and Ease-filled all the time — it’s important to note that these are CHOICES, things we can Choose, a way of living Life that creates less Resistance and Push and “fighting against” Currents. And these are very different from the lower-case “easy,” which Wounded Maiden sees as a State and assumes it should be here all the time ‘if we’re doing it right.’ }

Neither of these are sustainable.

Because neither of them are built for Multitudes — the Multidimensionality that we hold as Humans, let alone as Souls in this Human experience.

They are BOTH going to have us trying to live our lives based on one tiny square inch of our experience —

it must be ONLY THIS WAY, and everything else is wrong, incorrect, No, faulty, flawed, less-than or unwanted.

Can you hear the utter Rejection in there?

The Rejection of EVERY SINGLE Complexity and Paradox and In-Between and 'grey area' and nuance?

And if we're Rejecting those things — and please understand, if we're saying there's only one "right way," or even "the best way" (which is the exact same thing), then we ARE Rejecting those things fully... And not just some of them, we're Rejecting all of them....

...and if we're Rejecting them,

then what we're doing is trying to live the life of a Machine.

It's Stepford Wives.

It's every house on the street the exact same design, shape, color, decor and furnishings.

It's one mood, ALL THE TIME. FOREVER.

It's Perfectionism.

Utter, unforgiving, no room for literally anything else, Perfectionism.

That's not Life.

That's certainly not Love.

And it's impossible to have Beauty there.

Why?

Because we don't perceive Beauty in the homogenous.

Our brains perceive Beauty as something special, something unique, something that has us cocking our heads to the side, softening our bodies and our faces into a smile, and going, "Ohhhhhh.... look at THAT..." or "Ohhhhh... wow... LISTEN..."
Yeah?

Even Harmony doesn't live there.

How Harmonious do you think Nature could be if there was only ever one kind of tree, ever, anywhere, the entire planet over? How Harmonious could it be if there was one kind of animal, sayyyy... rabbits. ;)

Magic and Miracle doesn't exist there, either, btw.

Where would they come in if everything was a one-note song? If everything was all exactly the "one correct way"?

Harmony, Beauty, Love, Magic, Miracles, even Life — they don't happen from sameness.

Which means they don't happen from "one right way."

Which means they don't happen from 100% Yes or 100% No.

So then, "if it's not a hell yes — then it's a no" falls apart.

It's a non-starter.

It's 1s and 0s. Either / Or. Right / Wrong.

And if you're living your life that way — thanks to some coach and their Manipulative marketing tactics or damaging Teachings — you're painting yourself into a corner that you won't be able to get out of… because the Thought-forms will keep reinforcing it.

Why do they do it?

Even if they don't realize they're doing it (somebody else probably taught it to them) — they're poking on your Wounds.

They're poking on your Fears of your Dreams passing you by, the Scarcity that "it might not be meant for you," the anxiety that you might not be doing it right — in order to get you to buy.

They're even poking on the flawed ideas of what Empowerment and Standards and Worthiness are, thinking that if you only say Yes to the things that are 100000% HELL YES, that means you're Powerful, a badass, "high value," confident, "know your worth" and all those other labels that make you think you're 'getting it right' —

— meanwhile, you're just continuing to build up the armor, put up walls, close yourself off from Possibility, chisel away at your Essence and your Sparkle, push away what's desperately trying to come Fill you, and keep Love, Beauty and bone-deep Pleasure far away... because, again, those cannot exist in the sterile Either / Or.

Even if they're packaging it as Discernment — they're selling you faulty goods.

Discernment doesn't come in broad strokes. It doesn't happen in the "big booming voice" of Clarity. That would imply that it's OBVIOUS. Right?

Discernment speaks of our ability to Sense and Feel and Know — through Subtleties. 

I.e. through Nuance, through the In-Betweens, through the tiny whispers that are NOT the "100% hell yes or no."

Is this landing, my loves?

Can you see how this is all painting you into a corner where you don't actually touch the things you're Desiring — the things that had you listening to that Teaching in the first place?

Because what you're CRAVING — the things you keep looking for in the books and the courses and the podcasts — is the Multitudes you were designed for, it's the Multidimensionality you're meant for, the Both / And that OPENS you into your Sacred More... 

it's the Bounty, the Beauty, the Love, the Magic, the Miracles, the Wonder, the total Harmony, the Possibility of something BEYOND the "normie" and Beyond the "sameness"

...it's definitely not the Linearity and Limitation and Machine and Wounded Energetics that close the doors you keep trying to open.

So what does this have to do with Money, with Spending, with Investments?

It's asking you to listen to Nuance.

It's asking you to walk with more Both / And

(or, put into other words, to look for "the best of both").

It's asking you to stretch yourself, while you also take care of your Nervous System, at the same time.

It's asking you to Trust the Calling, while you also care for the very Human need for Nurturing who you are, where you are, and what you need here.

It's asking you to find a way that's in BETWEEN the "Yes or No" — that allows you to Move, to Create, to explore, to make room for More to come in.

It's asking you to stop "Waiting Until" there's an obvious answer, and start taking (at least baby) steps with what you sense, what you're curious about, what feels like Possibility, what feels like there's More in that direction for you — even when it's a shaky, wobbly, 'kind of terrified, 'not sure' kind of Yes.

It's asking you to follow the Wonder a bit more — to move within the 'Maybes' — to sow the seeds of What's Possible... in a way that still honors your Nervous System, not frying it and 'pushing through' because it's what the "Badass Penthouse CEO" tells you you're supposed to do.

It's asking you to come closer to the Beauty Realms, the Magic Realms, the Possibility Realms, and closer to Love — and Remember that how you step into those Realms... is by listening to all of your Multitudes.

Not just the ones that are the loudest.

Where to start for True Clarity in what’s Aligned for you: Connect With Your Soul (practice)

Where to start for Sacred Manifestation: The Antidote (Sacred Manifestation masterclass)

I got a great question after a recent email — which was the Part 1 of the "Invisible Blocks" series here — that was in essence, "I think I do all of these things — how do I stop doing that?"

And I Know that's the million dollar question... 

And my answer for you in this — which I Know might annoy the Ego and Monkey Mind parts of us, at least at first — is this:

Work with more of the Invisibles.

Commune more with the Invisible Realms.

And the reason I Know that infuriates our Egos and Monkey Minds, is that those parts of us want ANSWERS, dammit ;) And they feel like that isn't one.

But I'll tell you exactly why it IS actually the answer — and exactly why it works.

First, though, what do I mean by the Invisible Realms?

I mean those Intangible, Ineffable places — both within us and around us — that defy Logic... that don't adhere to the 'rules' of Practicality and Math... that swim just below the surface of our Conscious Awareness and physical vision... that might as well be made of Water or Mist for how easy they are to pin down into nice tidy, orderly little boxes for our Mechanical understanding...

I mean working with the Wisdom and the Helpers of the Unseen Realms.

I mean working with your Subconscious and even Unconscious Minds.

I mean working with Energetics, Emotions, Intuition and Sensations.

I mean working with the In Betweens, the connective tissues of things, the Sacred Relationship between things, and the Field created BY things.

I mean all of that.

Because the more you work with those things —

a) the more you are empowered WITHIN, because you're coming into more and more and more of your own Remembrance of the languages these things speak, and your ability to hear them, understand them, commune with them;

b) the more you begin to focus NOT on the Math, the Doing, the Outcomes, the Measurements, the Attachments to Linearity — and focus more on Possibility, on Wonder, on Resonance, on Beauty, on Awe... which means you experience more OF those things (hello, Magic and Miracle and the Thriving Abundant Universe showing off just for you); 

c) the more you start humming with the kind of Aura and magnetism and charisma of someone who is Made for Magic... someone who sparkles with a Light that can't be explained... someone who seems to Flit or Float or Flow (or all 3) with the pulse of Life in a way that defies Logic, too... someone who has a curious inner-smile that seems to say, "she's in on the playful secret, she's in on the Cosmic game, she's in on the Invisible lark..."

d) the more you rewire your Thinking Mind, your Monkey Mind, into becoming a Mind made for Magic... and therefore, the more you become Open to being Guided, Carried and delightfully surprised by the Thriving Abundant Universe and your Soul, into everything you've been trying to 'Manufacture' or figure out or ‘make happen’ yourself.

Working with the Invisible Realms — the ones within you, the ones around you, the ones in between things, the ones underneath things — IS the Doorway into Possibility.

And it's also — isn't it so great how this works — it's also, at the same time, how YOU begin to Open into Receiving more of what that Possibility holds for you, what it's been whispering to you, what you can feel it Calling you into.

Where to start for working with the Mystical Invisible Realms & the Energetics Underneath and Between: Channel (mini-course), Soul Guided (mini-course), AURA (mini-course)

Chances are, if 'the needle isn't moving' the way you wish it were — one of these 3 things is at play…

The more we shift THESE, the more my clients start having their biggest “OMG IT'S HAPPENING!!” breakthroughs, Miracle Moments, and that gorgeous Flow State we always create our greatest Abundance in…  

The sudden epiphany and Clarity in their Offerings, so her Work feels like it's pouring through her like a Divine Stream of Wisdom and Inspiration and is carrying HER instead of her trying to 'figure it out' all the time, like my client C.

The game-changing shift in her Love Life, so the relationship and man of her dreams had room to come in (and came in within WEEKS), like my client A.

The actual Dream come true — literally she saw a vision of her Soul Work coming to life in a way that felt soooo far out there, but then out of nowhere it just 'arrived' into her life, like my client E. 

The clients finding her — and hiring her — when she stopped Doing all the Doing the way “she's been told to," and started Releasing the Limiting Perspectives, the brow-furrowing “trying,” and the pressure she was putting on herself, like my client A.

The job, then the promotion, then the other promotion where she gets to bring her Energy Work and Depth Wisdom to a corporate space in ways she wasn't sure was possible, like my client H.

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I have hundreds of stories like these — and the Foundations of the shifts ALWAYS begin with moving these out of the way…  

1. Hyper-Attachment and Measurement 

Here are a few examples:

You're trying to "hold the Vision" for what you want to Call-in — but it's turning into Anxiety or Discouragement or Frustration in your System, which only shuts you down more.

You're Measuring the sh/t out of everything that's happening (or not happening), and Judging it for not moving as fast as you want it to, or not being 'enough' because it's not the Outcome you want yet.

You — maybe unknowingly — trend toward the thoughts that say, "It's not working." "Why isn't it working." "What's wrong with how I'm doing things, and how do I fix it."

But even if this is mostly Subconscious, even if you're mostly good at managing your Thoughts — this is where all that 'funk' and 'swampy feelings' are coming from when they hit you like a ton of bricks..

2. Over-Thinking / stuck in your Head

Examples:

You haven't yet purged the Conditioning that trains you to think that you can THINK your way into solutions, ideas, and inspiration, and convinces you that you need to "figure things out."

You can't. If you could, the solutions would be so much easier to find — and this type of Conditioned Thinking keeps you searching, trying, stuck in the hamster wheel.

You're trying to do the 'Math' of what you should do or how you should do it — trying to 'find the right way,' trying to Assess and Pre-qualify every Move you make to see if it's gonna be the right one. Waiting for it to 'make sense' before you move. 

This will only keep you waiting, slowed down in your Expansion, and holding back.

You're spending a lotttttt of time and Energy wondering "why they aren't buying" or "what they're thinking" or "what should I be saying so they desire this / me more" or "what should I do so this works."

And again, even if this is mostly Subconscious — it's the TONE of the Thoughts and Beliefs and How you're approaching things. Problem-solving is still a focus on the 'problem.' Right?

3. External focus instead of Internal and Eternal focus

Examples:

You're still being led around by what you're trying to "Get" — probably Consciously, but definitely Subconsciously — which necessarily has you Moving from Small Self, from Scarcity or from #1 and #2 above.

Stories and Thought-forms like these ones below, a) keep you from Embodying that juicy kind of Magnetism that more effortlessly calls people to you, and b) keep you stuck, spinning your wheels and holding yourself back from getting out there:

“Why hasn't this happened already for me, it should already be here” - or - “I'm so frustrated and resentful that it isn't here yet” - or - "why would they want me when so many other people do similar work" - or - "but how is this any different / how does this standout as unique" - or - "they're so much more experienced, what do I even bring to the table" - or - "why would he / she choose me when I'm not as ( insert Self-Judgment and Comparison here) as she is"... etc.

You can't even feel the Fire of your Passion, your Inspiration, your Channel, your Alignment, even that molten honey of your Desires — because it's all over-ridden and choked off by Anxiety, What Ifs, "How do I make this happen," and "But I need this."

 *

These are just a FRACTION of the things that go on Internally and Eternally (i.e. in the Realm of your Soul, your Divine Inspiration, your Co-Creation with Spirit... or the lack thereof)

that get in the way of the kind of Sacred Success and deeply Soul-Aligned Life you want.

And the thing is — these are Invisible Factors,

meaning, they are SO INGRAINED, so Conditioned, so embedded in our psyches and our approach to creating Success —

— that I'd say the vast majority (if I were to give it a number, I'd say like a whopping 98%) of people can't see or feel or understand what's getting in their way, what's creating the plateaus, or what these blocks are that can be shifted.

And that means, too, that most people don't tend to look at these places.

They don't tend to look at the Energetics, the Thought-forms, the Subconscious Patterns, the Conditioning underneath… They just keep looking for the STRATEGY to fix things.

Which is like trying to build a house on quicksand.

But these Invisible Factors — these Invisible Blocks, the Energetics, the Loops, the Patterns invisibly holding you back — are EXACTLY what we help you shift here.

We give you the Internal and Eternal shifts (and THEN follow them up with the practical, tactical, tangible External ones that MATCH)

so that Movement becomes your middle name,

and you become the Vessel through which your Sacred Success flows, and your Soul Fulfillment grows.

One of the things my Entrepreneurs and Creators and Artists tend to ask me to teach them — is how I create my Content.

How I approach it. How I get into the space to Channel. How I'm so prolific in what I create and what I write. But they also ask me — how they "should be writing their posts," how they should be structuring their Messaging, so that it's most effective... so that it's most intriguing and inviting... so that it calls in the most clients, customers, followers.

And part of my 'response' to these questions — aside from doing this particular kind of Work, personally, with my clients to tease out their most Aligned and True Message — was to create the micro-course, Invitation. It's something I use regularly to tap into what wants to be said when sharing my Work, sharing my Offerings, sharing my — hence the name — Invitations to join me here.

It's also one of the things we do in Clear Tones — where, along with exploring this together over our entire journey together, there’s also a full call dedicated to clarifying the Voice and the Tone of your Work and your Medicine.

And more is coming — I have a number of things I'm wanting to create and offer you to keep helping you with this, to keep tapping into that pulse, that heartbeat, of your Work, and express the true Voice of it... instead of what usually happens (and what I've experienced SO MUCH, myself, every time I've tried to work with a copywriter or a marketing expert, or just tried to shove my Work into a “marketing framework”) — which is: 

We get diluted.

We get diluted and contorted and encouraged to bend ourselves into funny little pretzels of "marketing bots" — so that we can make more sales, get more clients, scale our business.

But there's something that happens when we do that, that we don't anticipate. I Know, because it's something I've personally experienced — and it's something I help my clients navigate all. the. time...

Our Work — the kind of Healing Work, Soul Work, Purpose Work, Medicinal Work, Divine Work that we're here to deliver? The pure Artistry, the pure Poetry that we're here to share with the world? The New Ways we're here to invite people into, the Sacred Ways we're here to help us all Remember, the way we're here to help people step OUT of the Conditioned, status quo, Wounded Paradigm ways of living...?

Our Work isn't meant to be forced into a shape of communication and expression — that was created, and is upheld, by the Paradigm we're here to help people heal from.

And when we try, it loses its Medicine.

It loses the thing that makes it Magnetic and RECOGNIZED as what our people crave.

It loses the Tone and the Frequency and the Magic that our Work embodies — the very thing that makes it intriguing, inviting, and activating for those who encounter it.

In other words — when we try to package OUR kind of Work and Medicine into the OLD kind of business tactics, marketing tactics, messaging templates... it dies a little. Or it dies a lot.

It loses its Energy.

And WE lose our Energy, and our ability to feel the pulse and the heartbeat of our Work.

We lose our connection to its Voice, and to the Aligned steps for creating and delivering it.

Does that make sense? We snuff out the flame of our Work trying to make it fit into a mold that is counter to the Work itself. 

And this is often why women come here feeling so frustrated, feeling so lost, feeling like they have ZERO Clarity, feeling like they're spinning or confused and can't find the right way forward in their business — 

— because they've been "trying all the things," but it doesn't seem to be working for them like it seems to be working for others.

I wanna repeat that part again:

It doesn't work for them the way it seems to be working for others.

This is KEY.

It literally CAN'T work for you the way it works for them.

It's not supposed to.

You're not here to keep recreating the status quo. You're not here to keep buying into the old and Wounded Ways of doing things. You're CERTAINLY not here to bend and contort your beautiful, precious, Sacred Work into shapes that were designed to keep us in Wound, keep us from our Wholeness, keep us out of Healing, keep us out of our Abundant, Sovereign, Powerful nature.

And, BELIEVE ME, I understand how frustrating this can be, because the vast majority of the examples we see out there, and the kinds of Marketing and Messaging and Business we're taught is NOT conducive to OUR kind of Work, and OUR kind of Success — and it's not comfortable Knowing you're meant to do things differently than the vast majority does it. But it's everything. It's literally everything.

Every time I set myself free from more and more of those old, outdated, Wound-based ways of business — and the more I get better at catching myself when one of the 'hooks' tries to convince me otherwise — my business actually thrives MORE.

So one of the things I do in my own Work, is — and I know this is going to sound just so basic and almost trite, but I promise you the Energetics of this is MASSIVE for your business, and your ability to feel On Purpose, Aligned, Inspired and in Flow: 

I just do what I do in my content. I channel, I teach, I speak about this Work how I feel like speaking about this Work.

I don't worry about who gets it and who doesn't.

I don't worry if it's 'confusing' to some people.

I don't worry about "writing the right kind of hook" or "having the right kind of CTA."

I don't worry about the various kinds of posts, and their sales psychology, and the kinds of messaging "you want to be sure to have if you want to make sales."

I try to ensure that what I'm writing, and what I'm Creating, and what I'm Offering feels like THE MOST ME.

That it feels like the heart and the pulse of this Work.

That it feels like it's dripping with the Tones and the flavors of what we do here; the depths and the richness, the vastness and the Miracle Mind I'm inviting you into.

I try to ensure that I FEEL this Work in what I'm writing and sharing with you.

And that I'm not losing it inside of dry, rigid, life-draining marketing tactics instead.

I avoid and abandon the 'shoulds.'

Which is why you'll never get 'shoulds' inside this Work.

Even Invitation, which is a 'framework' for creating content and sales pages through the Feminine Voice — there still aren't any shoulds, or any rules. There are inquiries, there are  invitations, there are explorations and particular Tones for you to feel into and let your Work speak through them... 

But everything I offer you here, when it comes to your Message and your Messaging, is fluid. It's based on TONE. It's based on your unique Medicine, and how your Work actually wants to come through you. 

Because I've tried the other things.

I started out in this business really freely sharing; really fluidly writing, creating, sharing this Work. Doing all the things I was just sharing with you above. And it felt AMAZING. It felt so deeply Aligned. And it Resonated for people. It called my people here. It invited people powerfully into this Work. It beautifully and organically grew my business. 

It felt like I was just deeply, Magically, Co-Creating with the Universe... with the Divine... with my Soul, and the Work I'm here to do...

And then... I started having 'bigger results,' if you will. I started reaching milestone after milestone in my business, and then the 'claws' of the Industry, and of my own insecurities, started sinking in... "CEO boss babe" thoughts and "how other people do things" started getting their hooks in... Subconscious programming started taking its toll, telling me, "Well you should be a more buttoned up business owner, a more well-oiled Machine — not just a flowy, Feminine Mystic... that's not someone who runs a successful business."

I started holding some Judgment about who I was, and how I do things, and my flowy, Feminine, Mystic ways — and thought, "If I want this to work, then I really need to 'nail down' my marketing and messaging, and speak more clearly to the people who aren't gonna understand what this Work is about if I keep just writing the way I'm writing..."

Can you hear all the Rejection and Contortion and Conditioning in that?

Can you hear how the Weirdo Wound (as I call it) is cropping up? 

Can you hear how I'm undermining the entire HEART of what this Work really is? :(

So I've bought marketing and messaging courses.

I've hired a copywriter and a marketing expert.

(I will say, I DID really have beautiful experiences with both of the latter women, but it ended up just being experiences of Clarity — the beautiful experience of having your Work reflected back to you by someone else — and I didn't end up using any of their writing or their "approach" to writing, again, because it didn't feel like ME, it didn't feel like my Work, it felt like... Marketing.)

But what I found out, the painful way, the hard way — is that I will lose more and more of my Voice and the Voice of my Work, the more I try to fit my words into a Template that was "designed to sell"...

...instead of a framework that is designed to Return me to my Voice, to my Medicine, to my Magic, to my Channel,

and is designed to keep the Tone of the Work intact, in its Pure Essence, in its unique and beautiful Frequency.

And none of the sales strategies or marketing strategies or business Templates I've ever explored, that were designed in the old, outdated, currently-very-sick Business Paradigm — have never, ever served this Work. They've never gotten me into the Heart and the Pulse of this Work. 

Clarity gets to come, yes.

That's why we explore. That's why we dive deep. That's why we Shamanic Journey. That's why we journal. That's why we come into Inquiry around our Work and our Medicine and our Offerings — again and again and again.

But here's what I'd love to offer you:

Everything everything everything that you find in those explorations, everything that comes up for you in those Inquiries — IS your Clarity. It is your answer. It is your Message. When it rings something True for you. When it vibrates something or sings within you. When it sparks some kind of Aliveness and Alignment within you.

And know what that means?

It's gonna change. It's gonna move. It's gonna keep asking you to stay Present with it, and Move with it, and birth it, express it, deliver it how it wants to come through in that moment.

And the BEST, the best best best best thing you can do, for your Channel, for your Message, for your Marketing — is no longer making that wrong.

It's letting it Flow.

Because it's how it wants to Flow.

That doesn't mean you're changing 'what you're doing' or your title or 'what kind of a coach you are' every time a new Inspiration hits. It doesn't mean you're reinventing the wheel, burning down what you'd been doing and starting something new, every time you have a new idea.

It means you're Allowing the TONE and the Purpose of your Work to have the stage — and how YOU show up for it, how you Steward it, how you let it speak through you and create Movement and change and impact through you... be fluid. Not caged into a box. Not Narrowed into something it never wanted to be in the first place.

Your Work — and the content created FOR your Work — wants to be Alive. It wants to have a Voice. It wants to have a Pulse. It wants to call YOU up into More and More, while it calls your people in to walk with you.

It doesn't actually want to be "nailed down," love.

It wants to Co-Create with you.

Where to start for Soul- and Feminine-based Content Creation: Invitation: Magnetic, Feminine Energy Content & Sales Pages (a delicious framework), Breathe: Presence-based Marketing (mini course)

I'm not going quietly into Submission and Compliance.

I had a conversation with a woman online the other day — it wasn't a fight or even an argument, just a discussion — because she posted about the now-inherent toxicity in using the terms "Divine Feminine" and "Divine Masculine" (or even just "Feminine" and "Masculine").

She cited the use of these terms by a lot of (very loud) people who champion traditional gender roles, misogyny and the rejection of anyone with non-gender-conforming or non-binary identities.

She said that, because these terms are now being used by these people — WE should stop using them, too. That we need to 'do better.' That we need to move away from these terms and these ideas because of what they are starting to mean in society — again, because of the way some people are using them for their own agendas and destructive ideals.

And... honestly, I'm a solid No to that.

I don't say that because I disagree with her — I’m ANGRY that these people are abusing these terms.

The usage and distortion of these terms by people who are trying to insert their Narrow and toxic ideologies on the world, especially VERY public and (sadly) influential people, is a huge problem. And it is causing a bunch of people to start copycatting what they're seeing, leading them to further misuse and distort these terms, these Energies, these Principles.

But here's my problem with the idea of abandoning these terms because some assholes are starting to ruin them:

These Archetypes are beautiful. They are SACRED. They are Ancient. They are Forces that exist in the whole of Creation and within the Consciousness of Life itself.

And they hold an incredible amount of Medicine, Wisdom, Mystical nuance, Healing and Expansion — for literally every human, without exception, if we're working with them correctly.

When worked with correctly, they don't paint us into boxes and limiting roles.

When worked with correctly, they don't force us into Narrow versions of ourselves.

When worked with correctly, they don't dictate a single thing about what you wear, how you dress, what hobbies or household chores you do, 'who makes the first move,' how deep or soft your voice is, how much swing is in your walk, domination nor submission — honestly, they don't give a sh/t about any of that. That's all made up for the sake of Control and for the sake of sales.

(This is exactly why women AND men AND non-binary-conforming people come to work with me; it's exactly why this Work supports ALL KINDS of relationships (and even all kinds of Belief Systems) — not just one Templated version of these; it's exactly why people feel a sigh of relief when they get here, because this doesn't require you to try to be something that you're not.)

These Archetypes — when worked with correctly — put you into your Creator Power, into lock-step with the Thriving, Abundant Universe, and into more Harmonious relationships... with literally everyone and everything.

They are some of the most beautiful and Healing and freeing Principles we can work with — because they take us out of Narrowing ideologies and man-made boxes of Limitation, and Return us to Nature's Bounty, while also not trying to dictate to you what you "should Believe."

Because when you get down to it, they're about Sovereignty. And Harmony. And the Beauty that comes of the marriage of both, and the Honoring of both.

And I'm not Willing to let the manipulative, power-hungry, divisive assholes of the world — the ones who simply want to Control, for their own agendas, for their own benefit, for their own wealth, without a care for the well-being and Sovereignty of anything else — I'm not Willing to let them twist something Beautiful... without a fight.

I'm not Willing to start avoiding and vilifying and silencing the things they're twisting and distorting.

I'm not Willing to let these Archetypes — who they REALLY are, and what they are REALLY here to bring us; the Magic and the Wisdom and the Return to something so profoundly Beautiful — I'm not Willing to let them die... because someone else (or even many someone elses) are misusing, mis-representing, and adding their toxicity to them.

So, I'm not going quietly into Submission and Compliance because they're poisoning these Waters.

I’m not going to let them win.
I’m not going to let them take these Archetypes from us.

I'm going to get louder about the Truth of them.

It's time.

Because here's something I am Devoted to making sure the world understands:

What most people are teaching you — how most people are 'representing' these beautiful Archetypes — is Kraft macaroni and cheese.

Manufactured. Unhealthy. Designed to hook you into habits and ways of living that don't support your Thriving. Designed to distract you from Ancient Wisdom, and addict you to buying (and buying into) more and more of it. Designed to benefit NOT your Freedom, but your Conformity with a Paradigm that was built to take.

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Here’s a little bit more about this — and about why I won’t be stopping using the terms “Feminine and Masculine” any time soon (or ever).